RAINBOW MOMENTS

Posts: 2057 · Posted: 10.07.2008, 17:09

Consider time to be a great treasure. Never waste a second

Posts: 661 · Posted: 14.07.2008, 03:18

hi rainbow,
i have just read this and realized i have been wasting my time with my husband. he is a alcoholic and very abusive. my time is a treasure and i am tired of wasting my seconds of my life with this loser. you know i was thinking this today and low and behold i see this post. it's like i have been spoken to. i love reading your moments, especially when it hits home.
tysm.
sharon

Posts: 1742 · Posted: 14.07.2008, 05:02

That is a wonderful and very true moment and Sharon I hate to hear that and a big decision is ,if hes worth it and a good guy then mabey a get help or lose you as time is precious and every moment does count.

Posts: 661 · Posted: 14.07.2008, 16:17

ty char, it is a decision that i have made several times and each time i leave him i always go back due to his false promises to get straight. he has been to rehab stopped drinking for 45 days. then last weekend it all went down the tubes again. it's a hopeless situation.

Posts: 2057 · Posted: 16.07.2008, 16:03

WOW !!!!! sometimes in doing these moments i don't think that they will really hit home for a lot of ppl, you know how it is, we do it then go about our day, i'm so sorry to hear that you are having rough times, rest assured life does get better, if it can get better for me, it can definately get better for anyone, i was married to 2 alcoholics & man i tell you what, i seem to attract them, men & women, i guess there are just so many of them it's just impossible to go through life w/o knowing at least one, i definately know what you are going through, what i've learned is "never live for anyone else because you lose yourself in the process"

GOD BLESS

Posts: 2057 · Posted: 16.07.2008, 16:13

had an after thought Smile

notice how it only took a short & sweet sentence ( just a few words) to open someones eyes & heart Smile

Posts: 2057 · Posted: 16.07.2008, 16:20

please don't ever think it's hopeless, just remember "we are powerless over alcohol" be it the alcoholic or the many lives they affect !!

remember too if you don't take of yourself first, you CANNOT take care of anyone else !

sharon030161 wrote: � ty char, it is a decision that i have made several times and each time i leave him i always go back due to his false promises to get straight. he has been to rehab stopped drinking for 45 days. then last weekend it all went down the tubes again. it's a hopeless situation.

Posts: 661 · Posted: 16.07.2008, 17:10

Hi rainbow, No it's not hopeless for me in my life as i know that alcohol is a nasty disease but i choose not to live with it. you are right i have to take care of myself first.
ty from the bottom of my heart.

Posts: 2057 · Posted: 17.07.2008, 01:00

gonna post a special moment for you, be on the look out Smile

Posts: 2921 · Posted: 17.07.2008, 03:12

Thank you, Chaplain Rainbow.

And.....Sharon, my heart is with you. Hang in there and HANG TOUGH!

Your Guru

Posts: 2057 · Posted: 17.07.2008, 17:45

& Guru is truly another godsend to all of us Smile

Posts: 1456 · Posted: 25.07.2008, 22:10

so true